Thursday, February 14, 2013

Valentines Day

Ah Valentine's Day.    I have never really been a fan of Valentine's Day. To be honest this is my least favorite Hallmark Holiday.  There's no horrible underlying reason for this- I have never been dumped on Valentine's Day, or had some horrible experience. In fact most have been quite wonderful.  I've been given flowers, jewelry, balloons, stuffed animals, fancy dinners out.  So why do I dislike it so much?  Mostly because it is a holiday filled with all little materialistic things that annoy me.  For one thing, I am not a fan of the color pink.  And all things Valentine's Day are pink.  I am reminded of the quote from "Steel Magnolias"  "It looks like the sanctuary has been hosed down with Pepto Bismol!" That's how I feel about every Hallmark store and shopping mall around this time too.  Pink is definitely NOT my signature color. 

It's not just the millions of shades of pink that I find irritating.   When I became a Mom I learned first hand just how obnoxious all those little Valentine's cards are.  Yes, I have been the recipient of those cards, but as a Mom I just see them as one more pointless chore.  Staying up late to stick lollipops, fake Scooby-Doo tattoos, pencils, whatever, to flimsy, cutsie cards  is not my idea of spending my time (or money) wisely.   And don't get me started on the two most popular  Valentine's gifts: flowers and candy. First off Conversational hearts are just gross.  They are like the candy corn of Valentine's Day- totally pointless. The chocolates in those heart shaped boxes are just as bad. Even before my dairy free days I did not like boxed chocolate.   Plus if you want to get your sweetie some good chocolate it's all been marked up to some ridiculous price.  Same with roses. $100 for roses is ridiculous!  I much prefer wildflowers or a pretty mixed bouquet.

Even though I am cynical about the materialism of the day and what marketing has turned it into, I am still a hopeless romantic.  I have had the same Valentine for 14 years and every day I fall in love with him even more.  He is my rock, my best friend, my soul mate. Every year he does something special for me- I get flowers and a gift, and he takes me out to a very nice dinner.  This year it's a bit different. We gave ourselves a joint gift- a bedroom makeover complete with new bed, mattress, décor, and desk for me. Since he worked so hard on that home improvement project, this year I planned our date instead of letting him do it.  Instead of a super fancy dinner out like we had talked about, I decided we should do something fun together, so this weekend I am taking him to a local Microbrewery for a tour and tasting, and then to dinner.

Our kids are definitely not left out.  They are our 3 little Valentines and we make sure they each get a little gift and we have a special family dinner (tonight it's fillet Mignon and shrimp) This year our oldest made us all gifts on her own- she wrote each of us a poem telling us why she loved us.  THAT is what today is about-not pink hearts, candy, flowers, and fancy gifts. It's about letting those you love know how much.  As my husband says, everyday is Valentine's Day for us. 

 


Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Mango Sriracha Chicken

Back this summer my favorite blogger Beth at It's Good to be the Cook  posted an amazing recipe for a dish she called Mango Sriracha Chicken. Since everything she makes is amazing, I knew I had to try it.   It has since become a family favorite of ours. A little bit sweet, a little bit spicy, and very easy. We have made it several times since this summer and each time it's a huge hit.

Ingredients:

  • 2 Tablespoons Mango Butter (found at Trader Joes)
  • 2 Tablespoons Sriracha
  • 2 Tablespoons Rice Vinegar
  • 1 Tablespoon Olive Oil (although I sometimes omit this)
  • 1 Teaspoon Minced Garlic
  • Salt and Pepper
  • 4 Chicken Breasts or 6 Bone-in Chicken Thighs


Directions:
1. Whisk together all the ingredients for the sauce.

2. Pour about half of it over the chicken and let sit for a few minutes- until it becomes room temperature. Use the other half of the sauce as a dip for the chicken.

3. Cook in a skillet, either cast iron or non-stick, over medium heat until done all the way through.




I deviated a bit from the recipe this time based on what I had on hand.  I used bone in thighs and baked them at 375F for about an hour first.  When they were done but not browned, I removed them from the oven and finished them on my stove top grill pan.  I brushed each thigh on both sides with the sauce and let them cook on medium  heat until they were browned.  They weren't quite as spicy this way since they weren't marinated in the sauce but that worked out for the kids. Plus I had perfectly baked chicken on the inside with a spicy crispy outside. (Crispy but not burnt- that's the key.)


Doesn't it look like there is mac and cheese on my plate? That's because there is!  That recipe is for another post:-)
We also served these with the edamame and corn frozen veggie mix from Trader Joes.  It was a total kid win-even the picky toddler.

Thanks Beth for yet another great recipe!  

Friday, October 12, 2012

Living Frugally: Eating Well on a Budget

I am going to do a new series about living frugally.  We have been working hard to save money and live well below our means lately.   I will be sharing my tips and tricks that we learn along the way.  If you have any you would like to share, I would love to include you in this!  Just leave a comment.  Thanks! 

I don't know if you have noticed but food prices are insanely high lately.  Maybe we have noticed because we are buying for 5 people (it's amazing how much school aged kids eat!), but in the past six months at least we have most definitely taken a hit.  Every few months or so we re-evaluate our family budget to see where we are spending too much, what we can cut out and save, and what has changed.
We realized our biggest expenditure (other than our mortgage) was actually our monthly food bill. It was amazing to me how much we were spending on our groceries, and then eating out instead of eating what we had already spent money on.  In my opinion, there is no point in eating out on a regular basis if you have a well stocked pantry, fridge, and freezer.  We have all 3 all of the time.  There is technically no reason for us to spend money on eating out during the week.  Even with a hectic schedule of softball games, drama classes, Girl Scouts, and so on it is still pretty easy to find time to cook. It may not be a gourmet meal, but it will be healthy and homemade (and already paid for).

When I sat down and did the math for our grocery shopping I realized with 5 people in our family we eat roughly 105 meals a week at home. (Since my husband works from home some of the time or takes his lunch and/or breakfast with him when he's not I am rounding this up.)  That is A LOT of food!  Add on to that the fact that we are trying to eat a lot of organic foods and fresh foods that are just getting more expensive.  I had to find a way to cut costs without cutting quality.  I thought I would share some tips and tricks that have been working for me lately.

~ Make a bi-weekly menu and a detailed grocery list. Take both with you when you go to the grocery stores. Mark next to your list the items you have coupons for with a "C".  You'll remember you have them and actually use them.

~Buy meat from a local farm. We buy a quarter of a cow twice a year.  The price per pound is considerably less, and our beef is organic and free range. It's a lot of money up front, but in the end you actually save quite a bit. If you plan ahead for this it won't be so tough on your budget.

~Visit your local farmer's market or farm stand weekly for your produce.  When they have a surplus of something- like tomatoes or peppers- buy a large quantity and freeze them.You can freeze peppers whole (don't wash them first), and you can find the method for freezing tomatoes here.  The owner of the farm stand we go to weekly gave me at least 20lbs of tomatoes for $10 just because I asked.

~ Repeat a few meals, or plan other meals from the leftovers. If you make chili, have nachos the next night, or make empanadas. If you roast a chicken, have chicken salad pitas or curried chicken salad the next night.

~If you can, don't take your kids shopping. I know, this sounds TERRIBLE, but if you shop alone you will pay better attention to what you are buying and spending. Plus the kids won't be hounding you for the extra junk food they "have to have".  I always grab a special treat for my girls when I shop but it's always a healthy treat.

~If you have to take the kids, make your husband go too. We almost always shop as a family.  One wrangles the kiddos while the other shops.

~If your kids are older, turn shopping into a math lesson.  Not only will they learn something, but you'll pay closer attention to the prices of items as well.

~Make a list of the things you are throwing into the cart along with their prices.  This takes some extra time, but you'll watch the cost add up and you'll be less likely to throw impulse items into the cart.

~Buy in bulk the items that you use often and a lot of.  But be careful! Sometimes bulk doesn't mean cheaper.  You have to pay attention to the unit price.


Some things that we buy in bulk:

  • canned tomatoes
  • cereal 
  • bread
  • peanut butter
  • sandwich buns
  • pickles (my kids LOVE pickle chips)
  • Mayo
  • Ketchup
  • Broths
  • Organic Juice (100% organic cranberry juice is a lot cheaper at BJ's!)
  • Chicken breasts and wings
  • Snacks- pretzels/animal crackers/graham crackers
  • Nuts (almonds, pistachios)
  • Vinegar and baking soda (for cleaning)
  • K-cups
  • Almond milk
  • toilet paper 
  • Jarred spaghetti sauce (makes easy meal starters)
  • pasta
  • olive oil
  • flour for baking
  • applesauce
  • laundry detergent and dyer sheets
  • beer - seriously.  Our BJ's has a huge beer selection and we found that buying a case there to keep in the beer fridge saved us a ton of money rather than having my hubby stop and grab some on his way home. We  like Sam Adams Oktoberfest, which is more pricey than other beers. Our club ran a special, so we grabbed a case, which we are still working on. 
Of course we buy other things, but that's a good example. Our BJ's actually carries a lot of organic items, and even has coupons for them often.  I save a ton on our organic food.

I don't go to the grocery store in between pay days unless I run out of a staple- like almond milk.  This saves me time, gas, and the risk of impulse buys in the check out line.:-)

By following these tips, I have managed to come in under budget for a few months now.   We eat well, have full healthy meals 3 times a day, but it's not breaking the bank.

We do work in one night out a pay period.  Usually that is the night we get sushi.  But on average we eat home as much as possible.  I don't feel like I am missing out by not eating out. I would rather have the extra $5.00 than a Starbucks that I can make at home.


Do you have any tips or tricks to share for saving on your grocery shopping?  









Monday, October 8, 2012

Weekly Menu

We have so much going on during the week that planning our meals is a must.  We also avoid eating out as much as possible which means I cook at least 6 nights a week.  Sometimes on the weekends we will get take out from our favorite sushi place. We do try to do a date night once a month- but even then before we leave I will cook a meal for our girls.   We grocery shop twice a month- on pay day weekends- with a detailed grocery list.  It takes most of a Saturday or Sunday, but it's worth it to have a well stocked kitchen and to know what we are going to eat every night of the week.  We may have to grab an extra container of almond milk to get us through the week, but for the most part we get everything we need on our  big trips.  We also visit the Farmer's Market or our favorite produce stand on Saturdays to pick up our extra produce for the week.   

We have been keeping up with our menu quite well since the school year started and it is saving us quite a bit of time and money. 

For this post I will include last week's menu as well as this week's.

Last week:
Starting on Saturday the 1st:
  • Saturday: Slow cooker pulled pork BBQ, coleslaw, chips, and green bean casserole (We had a friend in town from South Africa and this is one of the meals she requested)
  • Sunday: We got take out sushi since we were all exhausted. And we had eaten the leftovers for lunch.
  • Monday: Spaghetti and meat sauce (I had my CPR training so I made dinner before I left and ate when I got home)
  • Tuesday:  BBQ Chicken Nachos - it was originally supposed to be beer chicken but I wanted to try my pork BBQ recipe with chicken.
  • Wednesday: Make your own wraps
  • Thursday:  Green Curry
  • Friday: Slow Cooker Fiesta Chicken over Rice 
  • Saturday: Steaks on the grill, steamed clams with garlic butter, homemade potato chips, steamed broccoli.

This week:
  • Sunday: Fall Chili with Skillet Corn Bread ( recipe to come)
  • Monday: Leftover chili or chicken noodle soup (which I made for lunch) since both girls have Scouts tonight.
  • Tuesday: Empanadas
  • Wednesday: Brinner- Pumpkin Pancakes
  • Thursday: Chicken fingers, mixed veggies, and rolls 
  • Friday:Pad Thai
  • Saturday: Burgers on the grill

Breakfasts:
I made several pumpkin and banana breads that the girls have been eating for breakfast.  They also have the option of cereal, scrambled eggs, pancakes, or oatmeal. 

Lunches: They get to choose from Pb&J, mac and cheese (Annie's organic), leftovers, or quesadillas.  Most days they choose PB&J with applesauce.

Snacks:
We have a morning snack every day- kids learn better when they aren't hungry so we make sure to stop and get a snack.  They like cheese sticks ( since they aren't lactose intolerant). I normally have a Trader Joe's soy yogurt with chia seeds.  
For afternoon snacks they choose from Goldfish, fruit, yogurt, or a cereal bar.

For my snacks I usually snag a handful of almonds or veggies and hummus.

So that's it- our menu for the week. If we have to deviate a little I have options in my freezer and cabinets so we still don't have to eat out. 

What's on  your menu for this week?